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This list will be updated when I can cross shit off and serve as a reminder of what I'd like to accomplish in the new year.

1. Finish the office remodel.
2. Put up new fence.
3. Get pregnant.
4. Pay off Haynes bill.
5. Buy one birthday or Xmas present a month.
6. Re-enroll in school.
7. Install shed.
8. Save up for kitchen remodel.
9. Get Jeff & Tracy up here!
10. Answer emails when I get them!
11. Exercise at least once a week.
12. Get the puppy housebroken.
13. Finish unfinished projects!

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   - Saint Augustine




Friday, May 30, 2003


Dinner last night at Joe's was really good and the dessert was fabulous!! Missed Chas, Tony, and Darrell, but am looking forward to seeing all of them on Sunday, when bowling starts up again. We are not going to be bowling (except subbing on occasion) but we will be running brackets instead. Should be interesting.

Work this week seems to have just dragged by, minute by fucking minute. It's been nice having the boss gone and leaving whenever I damn well please, but there have been a lot of clients coming in and out. I just wish that the week had gone by quicker. Of course, looking at the fact that it is now about June, the year itself has gone by faster than I would have liked. But that just means that I am that much closer to my trip to Disney! :D





Wednesday, May 28, 2003


Have also finished reading All Kinds of Love by Carl Reiner. A quick read and who knew such a talented movie and television guy could write so well? Very funny, well in my mind, and charming book. I'm starting on another of his as well.





Finished reading Good Faith by Jane Smiley and I have to say that as good as an author as Ms. Smiley is, this one was a bit predictable. You could see the end coming from a mile away, with only one twist, but it was still a good read. Also finished Important Things That Don't Matter by David Amsden which I don't really suggest. The story took you through this life of a boy/man who was overly petulant and the book really didn't show the character growing in all that he went through. You still just saw him as a typical teenager, out for number one, and with no hope of grasping the important things that DO matter. Avoid this one.




Tuesday, May 27, 2003


It's going to be a short week at work, with the holiday and all, but I still find myself dreading being here. Sure, there are things that I *could* be doing, but I have no motivation to do them and I just feel so bromidic about all of it. I seriously wish I could be at home doing housework, like laundry, dishes, and dusting. And I hate to fucking dust. But I find a little comfort in the thought that one day, hopefully within the next year or so, I won't *have* to work anymore. I think that is part of the problem, is that I *have* to instead of *wanting* to. Now, I have been out of work for a month or so at a time (this happens when your spouse is Navy and you move around a lot) and I have gone a little stir crazy not working. But I have never felt this, I don't know, jaded about being at work. And I know it is partly my own fault, considering the amount of debt we're in, and that is part of the reason we are both getting second jobs, but I still let it all get to me. But, such is life and the pursuit of the "American Dream," whatever the hell that's supposed to be. :)





What a great, nice and long weekend. Actually got to spend some quality time with hubby that we haven't been able to do in a long while. Saturday was the Strawberry Festival in Pungo. That was more fun than I thought it was going to be and then we ended it with dinner at a local restaurant that one of my co-workers is now working at part-time. Gave her a lot of grief, but we did leave a nice tip. :) Sunday we ended up going to see Matrix: Reloaded. GAG. I almost fell asleep in the movie theater. Keanu Reeves, regardless of how nice he is on the eyes, can't act his way out of the proverbial paper bag. I wish they would send him to an acting coach or tell him to just find another career. The fight scenes were horrid, stunted and felt choreographed, instead of flowing naturally, like the first movie. Even the hubby, who *loved* the first movie was sorely disappointed. He was just glad that we didn't actually spend any money to go see it (Thank you, Chas!). He'll definitely be going to see the third movie by himself. I can't put myself through that again.

Ended up at the Cinema Cafe on Monday night, watching Phonebooth. I never even considered seeing this movie when it was in the "regular" theaters, but I am happy that I did get the chance to see it. Colin Farrell looked good and the movie was surprisingly good. Much better than anticipated and a better movie than Matrix2. And I never realized how good of an actor he is. Very convincing. Of course, Viv will never again go into a phonebooth. :D





Tuesday, May 20, 2003


Dinner this week will be mystery meat. In other words, I have no frickin' clue as to what I am going to be making. And no, I won't have any help since the hubby is still on nights. Since I'm going grocery shopping tonight, I better make up my damn mind!





And for Michael; I heard what they did to you, or rather what they *didn't* do and I am appalled at they way "they" treated you. You know that *we* would never have done anything like that. I suggest some retaliation ... we'll talk later. :D

I love instigating shit!






Just so everyone knows since I haven't really said anything to anyone really; there will be no medals awarded at this time. Maybe in the next month or so. It may even have to wait until December, according to Mikail (sp?), Tony's friend that we met.

If you're confused, you haven't been paying attention here. :D






Finished reading Couldn't Keep it to Myself: Testimonies From Our Imprisoned Sisters by Wally Lamb and the Women of York Correctional Institution. For those who don't care for Wally Lamb's writing, this book is not written by him except for the beginning. It is a wonderful book, written by those women who were/are incarcerated, telling their own tales of their lives. I was amazed at the similarities to some of their backgrounds. The writing was superb and I highly recommend it.

Also finished reading Sapho: Manon Lescaut by Alphonse Daudet and Antione Francois Prevost. Not so impressed here, but it wasn't that bad. Just slow reading, due to the fact that it was written in the style of the early 1900's. Still recommended as a read though, if you find a copy.





Monday, May 19, 2003


Back from our trip and have a few things to tell you about. We left Wednesday night actually, around 8pm. Ended up stopping in New Jersey around 1am to catch a quick nap, but ended up sleeping for 4 hours instead. But it worked out fine and we arrived at my parents house around 10am Thursday morning feeling only a little tired. We hung around there, reading mostly and taking a nap. Then on to the rehearsal at the church and then dinner. The rehearsal went fine once the groom showed up (not his fault) and we were able to meet other people who we'd only heard about. Including the best man. Which you just have to see a picture of. And you will once I can get the camera hooked back up to the computer and download them. He really is a good looking guy, with a body like Mr. Universe. Except he's only 5'5". And yes, it was quite amusing walking arm and arm with him down the aisle that night, especially with my heels, bringing my height to 6'3". :)

Spent the majority of Friday running around, shopping, and getting my nails done. For those people here, who have never seen this "girly" side of me; yes, I occasionally *do* get my nails done. I used to do it more often when I worked as a receptionist, but haven't since I've been here for a number of reasons. So don't look so frickin' shocked when you see me hands. Really, it's not that big of a deal.

The wedding Saturday went fine, with only one hitch in the ceremony. About halfway through the ceremony, well, actually the "mass" part of a Catholic wedding that I abhor, but I digress, Sharon's grandfather "Pa" had a seizure. He's a great guy, 90, and was always full of fun when I went to visit him with her. Fortunately, her brother Jimmy (who, by the way, I had forgotten was so good looking and looks *just* like one of the Baldwin brothers) was a medic in the Army and there was also a nurse there. The tended to him and called the ambulance and the wedding continued. When we all finally got to the reception, Sharon's father (who had gone to the hospital with his father) came in after we were all seated and announced to everyone that Pa was doing well and was awake and talking. The aforementioned Jimmy came up to me later to tell me that when he first came around, Pa couldn't quite remember anything, but then it started coming back to him and he remembered Margaret (Sharon's sister) and me, looking good (okay, in his opinion not mine, I thought I looked fat.) standing beside Sharon at the altar. I'm just glad that I was able to keep myself from bawling at the church when they took him out, because I think it was the one thing that kept Sharon from crying. But the reception was wonderful. Everyone had a grand laugh when the best man and I had our "dance". And to be honest, it was hilarious. I drank probably more than I should have, but the hell with it. And when the reception was over, Sharon and her brothers all congregated at her father's house, along with hubby and me. (We might as well be family really) We had a good time and a few beers to end the night.

The drive home on Sunday was longer than it normally takes us, but we took our time and actually stopped to eat and just relax. We did stop at the Ikea at Potamic Mills (even though we had also passed one in Jersey and Baltimore) and to be perfectly honest, I wasn't all that impressed. The prices on some of the stuff was pretty good, but it was the selection that I was disappointed in. But that is just me. We did see a dresser that we really liked, but there is no money in our budget for that (or room in the damn car).

And all the way home, I read to the hubby from the second Harry Potter book. I know, we've seen the movie a dozen times, but trust me when I tell you; It is not the same. That is the one thing I really like about our road trips together (well, that and crossing off states on our list!). I read to him while he drives and it makes the time fly by. Hell, I never even noticed Jersey on the way back and that is a long ass state to drive through!! Our next road trip won't be until October, and I'm looking forward to it. I have been wanting him to hear the next Potter story!! :)





Wednesday, May 14, 2003


I had a nice time last night. Did a little bit of packing and Bob came over for a little Papa's dinner. Then Chas came over with dessert, wonderful brownies with a hint of mint. Hmmmm. And the conversation was always stimulating. Well, not the tennis part (for me anyway!) but when it turned to relationships and such things. We touched on a few topics that Bob and I have discussed previously, and it was nice to get another friends perspective.

Speaking of perspecitves, I know I have mentioned my own feelings regarding the upcoming wedding that I am (unfortunately) a party of. I keep having this sinking feeling about the whole thing, but that just could be my tendency to see the negative side of just about everything. I really do hope that she will be happy with the life she is chosing for herself. And all I know is, they better not even think about calling this off. I'll kill someone. I swear.





Tuesday, May 13, 2003


Looks like Michael had *way* too much time on his hands yesterday. I did take the tests, I'm just not going to bother to post all the damned links here. Needless to say, Mike and I had almost all the same results with the exception of the following:



Sorrowdweller. You are not overcome by anger nor
happiness. Your emotions are pretty well
balanced, but you do tend to get somewhat
emotional at times leaning towards depression
and saddness. You have your own views of the
world and while you do not see the beauty of
life, you are not completely overwhelmed by
darkness. Live and let live just because.


How Emotional Are You?
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xavier
o_O Another fancier of the old. Good for you I
guess. Charles is seen as a fatherly-type of
person, and is one you can open up to. He is
known to be amiable and very dependable. His
genius is only surpassed by his love and
understanding of other people. He makes for a
great companion with much affection, plus, the
baldness *is* kinda sexy.


Who Is Your Ideal X-Men 2 Mate? (ladies only)
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fuck
your fuck.


What swear word are you?
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China
China -
Debatably the most ancient and longstanding
cultures around, it is nowadays viewed as a
heavily populated but impovershed nation.


Positives:

Big.

Eclectic History.

Communist-Run (Control).

Worldwide Manufacturer.


Negatives:

Communist-Run (Bitterness).

Technologically Outdated.

Dissent.



Which Country of the World are You?
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beast
You are Beast!

You are brilliant and extremely clever. You can
handle almost any problem swiftly and
efficiently. You are devoted to philosophy and
are always up for a good discussion.
Sometimes, though, your anger gets the best of
you and you upset those whom you care about.


Which X-Men character are you most like?
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blue fairy
You like ot be alone and see everything around you.
u like to do things alone. your a fall fairy
but fall is a very pretty and soft time of year


What kind of fairy are you?
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What was surprising really, was the results of the Zodiac one. Didn't think I'd be an Aries. But maybe that is why I married one?





Thursday, May 08, 2003


I AM IN A VERY GOOD MOOD TODAY!!

And we have a good reason to celebrate tonight at dinner! Guess who finally made First Class Petty Officer? :D





Wednesday, May 07, 2003


Guess the movie quote: "I don't know why I pick the wrong men to fall in love with. My weakness is pretty boys with big sticks."




Monday, May 05, 2003


What a great weekend! Friday night was X-2, which wasn't half bad, especially with Wolverine (Hugh Jackman, who's worth going to see, even if you don't care about the movie itself!). Saturday was a very lazy, relaxing day. The hubby and I didn't do a whole lot that day, with one exception, but that was only because we *had* to. :D I had a lot of fun that night doing the no-tap. We did make a good little bit and I'm happy with that. Ended up at IHOP afterwards, with a kick ass waitress that sparred with Jeff beautifully. :) Sunday was the end of bowling, thank goodness! I did fairly well the first two games, but the third sucked ass. Until Chas gave me a another tip. But I'm just glad it's all over with and that I don't have to worry about it again until the fall. We need a break, but we'll still be at the alley, running brackets and occasionally subbing.

Now that the whole *must have sex* is over and done with, I have to admit it. I'm tired of having sex. Never thought those words would EVER come out of my mouth, but there it is. I think it has to do with the *have to* of it all. Sometimes it just makes it, well, not fun. And I usually have a lot of fun (wink, wink) but the past two days, I was ready to be done with it. I think I just prefer spontaneous sex to planned sex. It makes more of a difference than I thought. Let's just hope that the swim team did the job they were supposed to. We'll hand out the medals in about a week or so. :)





Friday, May 02, 2003


Ended up going home early yesterday. Didn't feel that great (think it was really just the drug side-effect) and took a little nap - after checking to be sure Bob was not having trouble with dinner. :) Speaking of which, it turned out really good. The stew was great, very tender meat, and the blueberry muffins and corn BREAD muffins were delicious. Now, if we can just get Bob to clean up after himself! :D Looks like tonight will be X-Men 2, which I really don't care about one way or another but the hubby really - REALLY - wants to see it. I'll be calling everyone with the times.

Chas, in his endless sweetness, showed up last night with a little 'get well' gift that was too cute. A little Ty doll, that resembled me - especially with the hair! It's too cute and Chas is just too nice. Thank you again, dear, and I hope we'll see you tonight.





Thursday, May 01, 2003


Last night was fun - I'm talking about dinner. Well, okay, the rest of the night was fun too - except the shot. That's still sore this morning, but it'll be worth it if it helps. Everything went well last night, the swimmers did their job well. Let's just hope well enough. They will have another chance tonight and the rest of the weekend. :) I'm not sure if I'm looking forward to dinner or not tonight - Bob scares me. :D But he said something about blueberry muffins and I'd be happy with just eating those! No, they aren't on the diet - but I'll force myself to eat them! :P





Yeah, kinda figured. :)

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Paranoid:Very High
Schizoid:Low
Schizotypal:High
Antisocial:Moderate
Borderline:Very High
Histrionic:High
Narcissistic:Moderate
Avoidant:High
Dependent:Very High
Obsessive-Compulsive:High

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